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The story of John Darling is a mixture of fact
and fantasy that is hard to sort out. Some folks were
embarrassed by it, some were angered by it and some seemed to
take delight in sensationalizing and embellishing it. The media
of the time (and today as well) used
the tale of the "Hermit of Pond Island" to scare and amaze
readers. The "Hermit was featured
on postcards, in histories and as an example of what might
happen to a child that didn't
work hard and learn those ABC's. The story of finding John
frozen solid in his bed of rags
and eaten by everything from rats to seagulls has been told
around many a campfire.
The photos
of John Darling standing next to a rude building on Pond Island
show a large
man perhaps six feet or more and 250 pounds, dark complexioned
with large hands, and
a full beard. His signature has not been found on any town
records or petitions and it is quite
likely that he did not read or write. It may also be that he was
just not a very sociable person
and did not concern himself with the affairs of others or the
town preferring to keep to
himself and therefore did not sign or make his mark on the
public record.
John was a
third generation descendant of Benjamin Darling, a freed slave
who had settled
on Horse Island (now called Harbor Island) in the New Meadows
River in about 1794. He was born about 1850, the son of Isaac
and Rebecca Wallace Darling at Sebasco in the town of
Phippsburg. To the best of our knowledge he had one brother,
Darius born about 1838 and a sister, Angenette born in 1853.
Darius married and had a family the descendants of which still
live in this area. Of Angenette there is no further information.
She may have died young or married but the thread of her line has vanished.
The remainder of John's early life is unknown
but on August 28, 1871 at the approximate age of twenty-one,
John married his first cousin Aurilla Darling who was younger
than he by several years. One month later Aurilla gave birth to
stillborn twins. Two
years after that in September of 1873 she again gives birth.
This time to a son named James.
James lives but Aurilla dies soon after the delivery. So we find
John at the age of twenty-three, widowed and with a new born
son. Again over the next six years we loose track of John
Darling and family.
The next
recorded event takes place on August 3, 1879 when John weds
Albertina Gilliam
of Orr's Island. Known as Tina, she is the youngest child of
nine and the fifth daughter of William Gilliam and Hannah
Dinslow. She is born about 1864 which makes her fourteen years
junior to John and fifteen years old at the time of her wedding.
The Darlings will now make their home on property belonging to
Tina's parents on the back shore at Orr's Island. Six year old
James now has a mother but we do not know who has cared for him
since his own mother's death.
Between 1879 and 1897 John and Tina survive the
struggles of making ends meet while
having either four or six more children. Charles Nelson Sinnett
records six children,
Tina,
Loiza Ellen, Anna May, Fred Wilbert, Arthur Edward and a child
born June 2, 1897. Arthur
Edward Darling and the child born June 2, 1897 are the same
person. (The obituary for
Arthur confirms the date of birth.)
There is no additional information listed for
Tina and other than Sinnett none has been
found. While she may have died young or at birth, the lack of
any other reference to her
life leads me to wonder if Sinnett didn't record the name Tina
as an additional child rather than as Albertina's nickname.
The next
child listed by Sinnett is Loiza Ellen. He records her birth as
April 5, 1883. Again,
other than Sinnett there is no other reference to Loiza
anywhere. There is an obituary
for Loring Ellis Darling of Westpoint, Phippsburg, son of John
and Albertina with a
date of birth of April 3 1883. Either Loiza and Loring are twins
or again Sinnett has made a
mistake. Loring is mentioned in several later news accounts
about the Darlings but Loiza is
never mentioned outside of Sinnett.
Anna and
Fred are both established children of John's. By working out her
date of birth
from the age at time of death we know Anna was born in 1888 and
Fred was born November 7, 1891
Arthur
Edward Darling born on June 2, 1897 died April; 27, 1969 in
Brunswick at the
age of 71. He was married twice and had fifteen children.
By the end of 1897 John is now forty-seven years
old, Tina thirty-three and they have been married for eighteen
years. Their six children range in age from twenty-four years
to less than one year. They are living on Orr's Island on Tina's
parents land and now they
are told the land has been sold to a syndicate of Philadelphia
businessmen who will be selling
off lots for summer cottages. The Darlings must move but to
where? Who knows what
options were open to them but the one John chose could not have
been the only one he had.
Perhaps he was angry with his in-laws for selling the land where
he had settled and he wanted
to remove himself and the family from them. Whatever the reason,
John chose to relocate to Pond Island, a treeless rocky low
island about a half mile to the south of Orr's Island. At this
point in time no one may have owned the island which could have
made it attractive
to John. He built a two room shelter in the middle if the barren
ledge and banked it
well with seaweed and driftwood. It was probably insulated with
newspaper, rags or earth.
The roof was flat and there must have been some sort of wood
stove. Quite likely one room
was for sleeping and one was for cooking and eating.
Exactly
when the shelter was finished and when John was required to move
to Pond Island
is not known. It may have been immediately upon the sale of the
Gilliam property or he
may have been granted some leeway in vacating the premises and
therefore there is no knowing
if Albertina or the children had actually moved out to the new
home by the spring of
1900. Sometime during those two to three years Tina discovers
she has cancer and being on
Pond Island would make doctors visits difficult. Tina moves in
with her parents and theTown of Harpswell began paying
for a doctor to treat her. The local newspaper has an unnamed
Orr's Island correspondent who writes what is for the most part
a gossip column.
Sometimes
cryptic comments are made referring to events which the island
residents may understand
but which are rather difficult to understand for others. In one
such column dated March
9, 1900 we find that "W. H. Doughty made some remarks about the
Darling scandal which
acted like stepping on a gouty mans toe" and a week later "Many
unjust remarks
have been made as to the men who have insisted
on the Darling family being kept from absolute want. Much of it
was caused by a Portland reporter who exaggerated the situation"..."The
truth was well enough known before and the town has only been
damaged without
doing any good by his sensational lies." The column concludes by
making reference
to the town farm and how without it it is hard to see how the
Darling family can be
kept in a civilized condition. The column for March 23 tells
that a move has been made to
provide for the Darling family and that Anna, the oldest girl,
has been sent to the House of
Industry in Hallowell.
Lets look
again at this information. First, apparently the Darlings are
unable to fend for
themselves. Second, although no reason is given, some town
residents feel compelled to
have the Selectmen deal with this, (they are, in fact, overseers
of the poor) while others feel
strongly that the town should not assume any responsibility. It
is also apparent that the story
has spread beyond the town and is considered a news item in
Portland. Harpswell is also having some questions concerning
whether or not it needs a
town poor farm.
We have to
assume that Tina is no longer able to take care of her children
and John is
not able or not willing. By this time James is old enough to be
out on his own unless he has
some mental incapacity which prevents this. (He is the offspring
of first cousins) Later in
life James is in fact a resident of the Pineland Center in
Pownel. The reason I bring up the status
of James is because about six months after Anna goes to
Hallowell, Harpswell
selectmen receive a receipt from Henry Allen
whereby he has paid Fred Fides of Orr's Island to transport the
John Darling family to the poor Farm and in a newspaper article titled
"The Myth of Pond Island dated April 1, 1948 Margaret Todd of
Orr's Island records that
while Loring went to Small Point, Fred, Anna and James became
wards of the Town. James,
even at age twenty-seven does not appear to be capable of being
on his own.
The Town also is paying for doctor visits for
Tina in 1900. She hangs on until August 2, 1901 when she passes
away we assume at her parents home. It is unlikely that John had
a burial plot and there is no grave marker for Albertina in the
Orr's Island Cemetery
but William Gilliam had one and it would seem logical William
buried Tina in his
plot. There is no more John Darling family.
News
accounts say John then spent the next 20 years on Pond Island.
But, with the possible
exception of maybe one year his wife and children did not.
Edward Rowe Snow in The
Romance of Casco Bay relates
that John was marooned on the island because he was
constantly in trouble in town. There is no other evidence to
suggest this was true. As a matter
of fact, with one exception, no record of any criminal activity
has been found. John's obituary
in the Brunswick Record states that at age 55 (about 1905) John
was called to Portland to answer charges that he was using a
lobster car without his name upon it. The county
attorney did not prosecute the case but recommended that John be
shown the city as it
was his first visit there. One of Albertina's nieces has said
that John never had a cross word to say about anyone even though
many people played tricks on him. "If Uncle John had ever wanted
to he could have broken any one of them in two but he never did.
He always
had a nice even temper." John found seasonal employment with SJ.
Prince and Sons on
Orr's Island salting fish, unloading fishing vessels, shoveling
coal and other laboring jobs.
He lobstered and fished the waters around Pond Island from his
dory and, while there is
no doubt his was a rugged life, he apparently found it suited
him well. Edward Rowe Snow also paints a picture of John as a
businessman. It seems that John would hire out to the
folks that came to the island looking for pirate gold and for
fifty cents a day he would dig
a hole as deep as the customer wanted.
Eventually John was unable to continue living on Pond Island. At
some time before his
death in 1918 (probably about 1914) the Town of Harpswell
provided him with a small cabin
on Long Reach Mountain at the south end of Great Island near the
Joel Alexander place and Thomas Alexander was contracted to look
in on him. The 1948 article by Margaret Todd states that John
became seriously ill and was taken to Maine General Hospital
in Portland where he died. He may have been "seriously ill" and
he may have gone to
Maine General but he definitely did not die there. His death
certificate records the place of
death as Harpswell, Long Reach Mountain and indicates he was a
resident there for four years
and gives the date as January 15, 1918. It is signed by Dr. GM.
Elliott of Brunswick and
gives the cause of death as an uncared for Vented Hernia with
Excessive cold of two days
duration as contributing cause. It appears that Thomas Alexander
either did not check on
John all that often or perhaps the weather prevented him from
doing so. Either way it appears that at least part of the legend
of the hermit is true. John did die alone and was likely frozen
when he was found. The Brunswick Record obituary does give his
date of death
as January 9, 1918 and so directly contradicts the death
certificate. It also states that the
interment was on Orr's Island. This agrees with the death
certificate which says the date of
burial was on January 18 1918 at Orr's Island and is signed by
the undertaker WE. Gordon
of Brunswick. There is no stone for John at Orr's Island and no
record of his burial in
the Orr's Island Cemetery. Again, as with Albertina we might
suspect that John is buried with
his wife on her father's lot. Then again they may have been
buried in unmarked paupers' graves. One account says the casket
lay over night in the Gun Point Community Church and lay
minister Charles Huff read a burial service. Another account
says the service
was in the Union Meeting House at Orr's Island. The obituary
states that John left three
sons. Arthur, James and Fred. Loring who lived in Phippsburg
until his death in 1942 is
not mentioned. Lorings obituary says James and Fred reside in
Pownel. James obituary says
he died at Pineland Center in Pownel in 1953. The Harpswell Town
Report for 1946 lists
Fred's death on November 20.
An unofficial Harpswell town census for 1904
lists a Loring Darling as a fisherman living on Orr's Island but
not part of a household. It also lists a James Darling, Seaman,
on Orr's and Fred as a pupil (no location given). Arthur is
listed as a pupil at North Harpswell.
We might conclude from this that in 1904 Fred and Arthur were
still on the Poor
Farm at North Harpswell and James has been released. Loring who
had not been sent to
the "Farm" had returned to Orr's Island.
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